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What do other couples have to say?

A Sample of Many Thank You Letters and E-mails.

Thank you again, we couldn’t be happier with the ceremony, you were very genuine and sincere and it came across loud and clear that you enjoy what you do and that you care about your couples.

Dana & Tim

Thank you so much for performing our wedding ceremony. We thought you did such a wonderful job, and we got so many compliments on the ceremony. You were so great to work with, and made the process very easy. We’ll recommend you to anybody who’ll listen! Thanks again.

Ben & Amanda

Thank you so much for the wonderful job you did officiating at our wedding ceremony! We felt like we were in good hands, and it means a lot to be put at ease during such an important day.

Matt & Jackie

Thanks very much for making our marriage a relaxed and memorable affair. There should be more people in this world with your attitude and demeanor. All the best.

John & Sandy

We just wanted to thank you for being part of our day. You made both of us, and our families, feel so comfortable and at ease. Again, we appreciate it.

Matt & Kelly

Thank you for your help with our ceremony and for being a part (a very important one!) of our special day. You were very responsive and easy to work with and your website is an amazing tool! Thank you.

Stephen and Rachael

Bob and I wanted to thank you for a job well done on Sunday. Your website made everything so easy beforehand. Everyone thought you were very charming. Thank you for helping to make the day so memorable!

Annie and Bob

We just wanted to thank you for officiating our wedding – you were wonderful to work with through this entire experience, and our wedding was perfect! Thank you so much, you will be highly recommended to everyone we speak with! Warmly,

Dave & Becky

Thank you for officiating our marriage. We loved the ceremony as did all our guests. Your experience & expertise made planning & exchanging our vows elegant yet simple. Our compliments along with many others for your time and generosity. Sincerely,

Joseph & Susan

On Line Reference
Tom was very helpful throughout the process. He offers extensive amounts of information on his website (www.tgarmstrong.com) and via email. He was quick to respond to inquiries and had the answers to all our questions. He is definitely very experienced in the industry. He was also very thorough when helping us plan the wedding to ensure that he directed the ceremony exactly as we wished. Further, he provided helpful recommendations and minor adjustments to our ceremony draft that we appreciated.

At an additional cost, we requested that he be present at our rehearsal. He arrived in a timely manner and utilized his strong presence to guide us through the rehearsal in an effective and efficient manner. It was great to meet him in person prior to the ceremony, and he also provided much guidance/suggestions about where to go, how to line up, etc., during the ceremony.

He also followed up with the marriage certificate in a very timely manner. He submitted the certificate to the county for authorization the Monday following our Saturday ceremony and sent a copy to us promptly for our records. This also included several informational memos to guide us through the follow up process (name changes, etc.) He was very helpful, very nice, and I would definitely recommend his services to anyone looking to be married . . .

Jennifer and Matthew

Thank you again so very much for helping Sahar and I on our wedding day! We are so grateful for your services! It’s been a real pleasure getting to work with you. You made a hectic process feel easy going and smooth! We wish you all the very best! Thank you again from both of us!

Michael & Sahar

I wanted to thank you for performing my step-daughter’s ceremony. The support via your website was wonderful – she & her husband appreciated the ability to select their ceremony. Also, your professionalism on the wedding day was much appreciated. Everyone was very pleased with your involvement! Thanks again.

Mary

On Line Review
He was wonderful to work with – even long-distance over email. We were able to write our own ceremony and have things just as we wanted. It was great to write our own ceremony (using bits and pieces of others from his site and from our friends’ weddings). He was friendly, very professional, and humorous. We were very glad to have chosen Tom to officiate.

Chad and Amanda

Thanks so much for performing our ceremony this past weekend. Everyone thought you did a great job and that we made an excellent choice. We’ll be sure to pass on the good word to anyone else we might know who needs an officiant.

Christina and Tom

We just wanted to thank you for a wonderful job you did on our wedding day. We know that you had a busy day that day but I really appreciate you being able to make it out and officiate our wedding. Everything went perfectly in the end! Thank you also for all your help and suggestions in the beginning as well as your website, it really made it easier to come up with a ceremony. It was a pleasure working with you, and we will definitely recommend you to anyone in search of an officiant for their wedding. Thanks again.

Kari and Korey

Thank you again so much for conducting the ceremony at our wedding yesterday. We received many compliments – you did a fabulous job! Take Care.

Meghan

Thank you so much for performing our wedding ceremony for us. I appreciate how helpful your website is. (www.tgarmstrong.com) I found everything I needed for ideas on how to personalize my wedding. Thank you.

Ryan & Marriah

Thank you so much for performing our wedding ceremony. It has been a pleasure working with you. You made the process very easy for us. Thanks again!

Dan & Diane

Thank you very much for being such a great officiant! The ceremony was the part of the daytime Alise and I were the most nervous, so we really appreciate the fact that you made it so easy! Thanks again!

Chris & Alise

Thank you so much for performing our wedding ceremony. You did a fantastic job. Also, I’ve used your website a lot regarding name change information. It has been extremely helpful. Thanks again.

Matt & Melissa

Just wanted to let you know that you did an amazing job! The day flew by so fast and I didn’t even get to speak to you at the wedding. (Note: the Bride arrived in a bus and was secluded until the very start of the ceremony.) Everything was perfect and your expertise made the ceremony so smooth. I didn’t want to seem ungrateful so I wanted to thank you as soon as we got home to NJ. We couldn’t have imagined it any better than the ceremony was! Thank you again so much.

Miranda and Richard

They lost their Marriage License and Certificates
We were unable to find our marriage certificate paperwork but WERE able to have copies printed out from the Government Center. They were sent signed via priority mail to you yesterday, guaranteed to arrive today. I hope it’s all in order now. I’m so sorry for not having it Friday night. Thank you for not making us cancel our wedding!!! :) Everyone loved the ceremony, by the way, and thought you were very nice. Thanks again,

Valerie and Aaron

Tom Armstrong’s Response
I have done at least 25 to 40 weddings in your situation. I would never stop the celebration for mere paperwork – we can always do it afterwards through the mail. Having said that, I once heard a story from a limousine driver about another officiant at the Como Conservatory. The couple had a 90 minute rental time and discovered that the papers were forgotten 45 minutes away – a 90 minute round trip. He refused to marry them until they had the marriage license papers in hand. The Como staff kept the Conservatory open later – beyond the rental time – so that the papers could be retrieved. Como has good people working there. Everyone waited because of the complete inflexibility of this judge. Life isn’t perfect and we can’t let a simple mistake hold us back from doing the right thing. Best wishes,

Tom Armstrong

Thank you so much for officiating our wedding. Your professionalism and help coordinating exactly what we wanted made for ease in planning and a perfect ceremony.

Bonnie and Justin

Thank you so much for the beautiful ceremony. It was more than we could have ever hoped for. It was a pleasure to work with you. Thanks again.

Angy & Chad

I just wanted to thank you again for making our special day not only come to pass, but for making it so at ease as well. We are both eternally grateful for the kindness you have shown us and would recommend your services to anyone. It was truly a pleasure to meet you. Thank you and God bless you!

Tiffany and Charles

Mitchell and I would like to thank you for officiating our wedding. Everything was perfect. You were a pleasure to work with and we appreciate everything you did for us. We feel our marriage is blessed and that we are off to a great start. Thank you again.

Mindy and Mitchell

Thank you for officiating our wedding ceremony. All of the information you provided on your website, as well as your prompt responses to all our questions, made the process very easy. Thanks again.

Sherry and Luke

We just wanted to thank you for performing our wedding ceremony! You did an excellent job and really made us feel comfortable with everything! We had so many compliments about the ceremony and we owe that to your website! We have already recommended you to others. Thanks again.

Josh and Carrie

On Line Reference
I highly recommend him! You get to choose exactly every detail of your ceremony!

On Line Reference

Thank you for officiating our ceremony! Everyone (including us) loved it! Thank you so very much!

Pat & Elli

Thank you so much for officiating our wedding. We found your ceremony examples extremely helpful when planning our ceremony, which relieved a lot of planning stress! We will definitely recommend you to future brides & grooms!

Jen & Peter

The wedding was absolutely wonderful on Friday night. Thank you a million times over to helping us with this. The evening was a total success and everyone stayed well after the music ended. It was the best and you made it much more special with some humor during the ceremony – totally cool! (NOTE – the Groom had nervous difficulty with the repeat-after-me and needed help.)

Christina was just beaming all evening! Thank you again for all you did for us.

Becki, Mother of the Bride

I wanted to thank you so much for the wedding ceremony you did for my daughter Molly. We couldn’t have asked for a more wonderful day and you did such a great job. Just what she wanted. Thanks again.

Jim & Judy

On Line Reference
Tom was great. He let us put together our own ceremony and worked great with our translator. He told us exactly what we needed and he didn’t overcharge. It was important for us to work with a non-religious officiant because we are an interfaith couple, and we found that in many cases, other officiants were relatively overpriced in comparison with other wedding officiants. Tom was affordable and made us very comfortable.

Thank you so much for officiating our ceremony. We’ve received so many wonderful comments on the whole thing. We will definitely refer you to friends in the Twin Cities! Thank you again.

Sonja & Kurtis

Thank you for officiating at our wedding. Your assistance in planning and creating a ceremony to our history and personality made the event even more special and meaningful. Thank you again for bringing about our perfect day.

Thank you so much for making our day so great! You did a fabulous job. Professional & dignified yet warm & open at the same time! The ceremony turned out exactly how we wanted & we got several compliments on it! Thanks again & take care.

Lindsay & Dane

On Line Reference
He was wonderful to work with – even long-distance over email. We were able to write our own ceremony and have things just as we wanted. It was great to write our own ceremony (using bits and pieces of others from his site and from our friends’ weddings). He was friendly, very professional, and humorous. We were very glad to have chosen Tom to officiate.

Chad and Amanda

Dennis and I would like to thank you for conducting our wedding ceremony at the Lake Elmo Inn. You gave us the tools to create a ceremony that represented our relationship perfectly. We had many compliments on the service.

Dennis and Janet

Thank you for officiating our wedding and for being so easy to work with. Please let us know if you ever need a referral. Kind regards,

Jeremy and Erica

You did a superb job. We received many complements on the ceremony and the vows!!! Thanks for helping to make our wedding very special!!

Connie & Keith

Thank you for officiating at our wedding! Your knowledge and expertise made the process so easy. It was nice having a part of the wedding I didn’t need to stress and worry about!

Natalie & Jon

Thank you for officiating at our ceremony. I received many complements on it. All of your tools – online – were very helpful. We wouldn’t have known where to begin without them. Thanks for providing quick feedback about the ceremony and providing me the information I needed to change my name. Thanks again.

Jodi & Kelly

Thank you for officiating our wedding ceremony. You did a wonderful job in conducting the ceremony, but you also made us feel comfortable. We’re very pleased that we chose you for our special day. Your website made it easy for us to construct a ceremony that we liked. Without all the helpful references and examples, I think it would have been much more difficult to translate out feelings into a logical ceremony. I’m sure you don’t need it, but if there is ever a need for another positive reference just let us know. Your experience in doing this was quite evident. Thanks again for a job more than well done.

Eric & Jennifer

Thank you for all your help. From planning to execution, you provided a wonderful experience that we will always remember!

Keith & Amy

Thank you for a wonderful ceremony. I had many compliments on my choice for an officiant. Thank you for all the preliminary work you did on our ceremony – you made the entire process enjoyable & painless. It made our wedding so personal & special. You did a wonderful job as our officiant & we received many complements on the ceremony. And, thank you for being so prompt on sending out our marriage certificate. It has made the name changing process much easier. Thanks again – you were a pleasure to work with!!

Meghan & Aaron

From your sample ceremonies we were able to piece together a ceremony that touched the very heart & soul of our marriage. Thanks again for helping to make our wedding all that we dreamed of.

Mark & Rebecca

You did a wonderful job – everything went so smoothly! Thanks again.

Tom & Lyn

Thank you very much for doing our ceremony. I received many complements on your service. If you ever need a reference we will be happy to help. Thank you for everything.

Ken & Kendra

Thank you for performing such a nice ceremony for us and for helping us with the waiting period waiver and license! It was a perfect wedding.

Julie & Zak

Chad and I want to thank you again for officiating at our wedding. Even through we never met you until the wedding day, we were confident that your approach and sense of humor (as evident from your website) would be great for us, and we were right. We really enjoyed creating our own ceremony to fit our personalities and feelings, and your website provided many easy-to-adapt ceremony ideas. We ended up with a ceremony that was very natural, heart-felt, and memorable (maybe we’re biased there!) and your calm and professional demeanor enhanced the ceremony. In fact, several people made a point to tell either us, or our parents, that it was the nicest ceremony they had ever been to. Thank you. We really appreciated how easy-going yet professional you were – from the months leading up to the ceremony through the “day of” and into the following days as the marriage license was processed.

We will definitely pass your name onto anyone we know in the Cities that is looking for an officiant! Thank you again for your helpfulness and support.

Amanda & Chad

Thank you for making our wedding so wonderful. We couldn’t have been more happier with the whole evening. You made our part easy!

Dana & Jenny

Geoff and I would like to say “thank you” for marrying us and being our officiant. You couldn’t be anymore professional than you were that day performing our ceremony. You had a nice, low, deep, but yet soothing voice. You were great !!!!! Thanks a bunch. We will definitely refer you to people.

Amber & Geoff

You did such a wonderful job with our ceremony. I would tell anyone about you. You’re a kind man.

Monica & Jeremy

On Line Review – Wedding Mapper
Tom Armstrong is a judge who is retiring from the bench after the end of 2010, and his main business will be weddings. He officiated our 9/24/10 wedding and I can’t rave enough about our experience. We didn’t actually meet him face to face until the actual wedding day, about 30 minutes before our ceremony, but we communicated with him via email and he was able to take the ceremony we put together and perform it as if he’d rehearsed it with us a million times. He made us feel so at ease that the actual ceremony portion of the wedding was probably the one part that we never worried about! He’s a true professional and he will help to make your ceremony everything you ever imagined it could be!

Katie and Nick

I really liked how the ceremony was personalized and felt that everything went very well.

Jason & Julie

Thank you so much for all your help and advice concerning the ceremony. We would have been lost without it!

Sarah & Scott

We were very pleased with how the ceremony went and it is definitely one we will remember. I would like to personally thank you for all your help with preparing the ceremony to make it unique and ours. It is wonderful that you have different ceremonies to pick from to make it different and memorable. My mother, along with everyone else at the wedding, said that you were so friendly and easy going. You made the ceremony fun and up beat.

Katie & Dan

Thank you so much for officiating our wedding. You did a great job personalizing our ceremony and keeping everyone and everything on track.

Krissy & Terry

We really enjoyed putting our ceremony together & we loved how flexible we were able to be with you.

Shannon & Ric

Thanks so much for all your time and help with putting our wedding ceremony together. It was very much appreciated.

Karen & Mark

Thank you for performing our wedding ceremony for us. You did a wonderful job! It was exactly what we wanted. Thank you for making our wedding day beautiful.

Laura & Chris

We just wanted to let you know how much we appreciate you performing our marriage ceremony. It was exactly what we wanted, and you made that a reality. Your suggestions for ceremonies was an awesome help. Thank you for being so kind and helping to make our wedding as special as it was. We couldn’t have done it without you. Thank you again!

Loretta & Derek

We want to thank you for being a part of our special day. You made the planning process easy and stress free by being so available and prompt with your e-mails!

Jennifer & Jonathan

Thank you for your help in creating our wedding ceremony. Your guidance, knowledge and experience were essential to making our day as unique and joyful as we hoped for. We appreciated your availability on such short notice and your comforting way of handling our forgetfulness of the marriage certificate and license.

Kostas & Laurel

Thank you for doing a wonderful ceremony at our wedding. You helped make the most important part very special. You were very helpful getting the ceremony itself together with its mix of traditions. Thank you again for marrying us.

Jessie & Mark

I’m so glad we found you to officiate at our wedding. You were very accommodating to all of our needs & wants. Thanks so much!

Kelly & Sheena

Thank you very much for presiding over our ceremony! You were wonderful and everything went according to plan. Thank you kindly,

Anna & Robert

Even though I only met you that day, I felt like I already knew you. You really helped make our ceremony special. Thank you again.

Mimi and Tom

Thank you so much for your patience & helping us create our memories.

Nancy & Tom

Thanks again for helping us with the ceremony, you did a great job and we appreciate you being there for our wonderful day.

Ryan & Nicole

Thank you so much for your assistance with Abbie and Mark’s ceremony. They thoroughly enjoyed the process of planning and working with you, and we have all been grateful for your guidance,

Bill & Judy – Bride’s parents

Thank you so much for making our wedding successful. Everything turned out great. You were very nice and calm, unlike me! The ceremony went great and the reception was a lot of fun! You did everything we expected and more! We will be sure to recommend you to others. Thanks!

Ed & Dana

Thanks so much for sharing in our special day. This must be a very special part of your ministry to others. Thanks for the enthusiasm and genuine care that you bring to it.

Larry & Beth

We just wanted to say “thank you” for the beautiful ceremony on Friday. Our family all commented on how nice it was. I even showed my parents that we could have a nice wedding … outside of church! Now that says it all :) Everything was perfect and we decided it was the best ceremony we have heard – funny that it just happened to be at our wedding! It was a pleasure meeting you and many thanks!

Charlie & Mindy

Thank you for your help with our wedding ceremony. You really helped put my mind at ease with all of your advice.

Heidi & Matt

Thank you so much for performing our wedding ceremony. It was a perfect day. Thank you for your great sense of humor – it helped us get through the day.

Kathie and Chris

Thank you for taking time out of a very busy holiday weekend to perform our wedding ceremony. It was beautiful, exactly what we wanted, and we literally couldn’t have done it without you. We will recommend you without reservation. Thank you!

Jason & Erica

You did such a great job at our wedding ceremony. We wanted to thank you for your services. Our wedding was so special – Thanks to you.

Roger & Jessica

How did we get so lucky? You exceeded our expectations and made our wedding day so very elegant and meaningful. Thank you for everything! Best regards,

Rick & LaRae

We wanted to say thanks for being part of our special day & for doing such a great job.

Chris & Wendy

We just wanted to express our appreciation for performing our wedding ceremony! Your happy & friendly demeanor put us at ease & enabled us to really enjoy that special moment. Thank you so much!

Kim & Garry

Thank you for making our wedding memorable. We are both going to remember the wonderful vows that you composed. Thank you for making it special. All the Best.

Shannon and Rebecca

Thank you for working with us to create our wedding ceremony. We appreciated your professionalism in handling all the details.

Ann & Michael

Thank you very much for performing our marriage service. Everything went smoothly! You were a very easy person to work with. We will recommend you to others.

Sharon & Robb

Thank you for being so helpful. All the information you gave to us was extremely helpful. God Bless you.

Dallas & Christy

Thank you for sharing in our day. You were very helpful and made planning our ceremony much easier.

Autumn & Dusty

Thank you for all your wonderful assistance during the process of planning our wedding ceremony. Your wisdom, thoughtfulness and patience are truly appreciated. Thank you for making our special day such a success.

Cyndy and Barry

The Groom, a Marine, was only home from Friday night to Tuesday morning. They got their marriage license with a five day waiver on Monday and married that day.

Thank you so much for officiating our wedding. The ceremony was exactly what we wanted. We really appreciate everything you had done on such a short notice. Thank you for being a part of the first day of our lives together. With love,

Kelsey & Jon

Thanks so much for your help with our daughter’s wedding. This is our second wedding with you as our family judge!

Joan & Fred

Bride’s Parents
Thank you for officiating at our wedding. The information and advice you provided along the way was very helpful. We loved that we could make the ceremony ours.

Kirsten & Mick

On Line Review – Wedding Mapper
Tom Armstrong is a judge who is retiring from the bench after the end of 2010, and his main business will be weddings. He officiated our 9/24/10 wedding and I can’t rave enough about our experience. We didn’t actually meet him face to face until the actual wedding day, about 30 minutes before our ceremony, but we communicated with him via email and he was able to take the ceremony we put together and perform it as if he’d rehearsed it with us a million times. He made us feel so at ease that the actual ceremony portion of the wedding was probably the one part that we never worried about! He’s a true professional and he will help to make your ceremony everything you ever imagined it could be!

Katie and Nick